We care, for the better.
A place for families, because you don't have to use drugs to be affected by them.
- How do I know if they're using drugs?
- Why do they use drugs/alcohol?
- Is it my fault?
- How can I cope with their behaviour?
- Understanding the stages of addiction and recovery
- Where do I get the help I need?
- Getting support for your loved one
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Posted by Rebecca on 21 May 2014.
My husband has used cocaine for 20years, I only Became aware 9years ago. Since then I've forgiven Him over and over again. I've found round the house in the car, it's been happening at my works Xmas do I caught him. He's promised to stop But I always catch him out then he has to admit it. He believes it's ok and everyone does it. We split just over a year ago Got back together he went to docs was going to get Referred to a rehab programme. This never happened he said he never received the letter from the clinic. He says he's come off cocaine on his own and doesn't need help. But there has been occaisions where I am sure he's back on it but he denies it and I'm left feeling it's me. I've been to coucilling and put on antidepressants as he says I'm the one who can't let it go. I just can't believe he's off coke after 20years and I know what I see. He's of a very addictive nature when he goes out for a drink it's always to excess, making me anxious in his company. I love him but I don't like him sometimes. I'm just so confused he's agreed to go to marriage coucilling but he feels that won't sort out anything but he'll go for me if it's what I want. Can someone please give me some clarity. He gets up goes to work pays bills and I know he loves me very much but I've lost my trust in him.
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