We care, for the better.
A place for families, because you don't have to use drugs to be affected by them.
- How do I know if they're using drugs?
- Why do they use drugs/alcohol?
- Is it my fault?
- How can I cope with their behaviour?
- Understanding the stages of addiction and recovery
- Where do I get the help I need?
- Getting support for your loved one
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here we go again
Posted by sad and tired on 23 April 2014.
I know its stupid, I have bailed my son out yet again, put my self over my own overdraft to pay his debts so he can keep his car and job, he gave me his card so I could take my money back when he got paid. Of course when he got paid he was down as he had taken so much unpaid leave, but still I rang companies asking them to waive charges etc, didn't take my money back that he owed me and felt so pleased that this month if he didn't touch any cash he would pay all his direct debits. So what does he do today he goes and gets cash over the counter with id only £50 but enough so that he cant pay his bills and its only a couple of days since he got paid. When I confronted him he denied it smirked and said "but you are the only one who can take money out, you have the card" I have been down taken the money he owes me and given his card back to him, he couldn't take it quick enough and was texting as quick. This is it now, he will blow the lot, his bills wont get paid, I am so upset yet again........it breaks my heart to know he is going to lose everything. All he keeps saying when I say anything is "f...off" nice eh.
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