We care, for the better.
A place for families, because you don't have to use drugs to be affected by them.
- How do I know if they're using drugs?
- Why do they use drugs/alcohol?
- Is it my fault?
- How can I cope with their behaviour?
- Understanding the stages of addiction and recovery
- Where do I get the help I need?
- Getting support for your loved one
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Like a poison arrow in my chest
Posted by Cappuccino on 5 September 2015.
A warm beautiful son who started a career in the military and fell for a girl who changed out whole lives but that was not all. We learned through my sons breakdown at 20 that he had been a used when he was younger, we never knew a thing. I was devastated . We tried to get him help but he wasn't reAdy so he went from job to job and eventually the girl who has histrionic personality disorder and was abused over and over with no parenting as she grew up became pregnant .her mother has learning disabilitys, their son now 20 months old. She never took to the baby and it's been tough and dramatic and just so terrible as they are both clever and have lied to me for two years. I found out they use cocaine and I know this has affected their sons life, I told them so and now I'm banned from seeing him. Their friends stopped coming and they can now on,y manipulate her mum. Everyone says get social services involved ,some say don't,let them get on with it ..I'm stuck whetVe I do,what do I deal with first or do I just let go ,it's killing me and my mum ..I don't know wher to turn
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