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Posted by CANT TAKE NO MORE on 6 July 2014.

My son got out of prison a couple of days ago..He seems very positive and is ready to get himself back at the counsellors....He now has another court appearance in 2 weeks for assault.....so Im in under no illusions that another stint in prison is on the cards...Its never ending, but I am proud how my son reacted to this all..He wants to get all this out the way, and get on with his life...he has no one to blame but himself...his words not mine! When he was released he had £50...he knew his son needed new shoes, and took him and bought a pair....this is another giant step..usually he would have been selfish and spent it on whatever.....I pray this BS will end soon.....hugs to you allxxx

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CANT TAKE NO MORE
8 Jul 2014

Spoke to soon.......Im at an all time low yet again....He went to sign on yesterday, and ended up returning to his exes out of his head...then the phone calls.....My heart is broken, and I am walking away....Ive done everything I can to help him.......He had all the support anyone could ask for....and yet again alcohol and drugs win......He text me today to call him....well that isnt happening....just cant take it anymore.....

sad and tired
8 Jul 2014

I am so sorry, you had such hopes and I followed your messages with the same hope both for you and me.  How much more can we be expected to bear from our sons behaviour. Xxx

CANT TAKE NO MORE
10 Jul 2014

Two days of getting my head straight..and Ive decided not to contact him at all....He has had every opportunity, and knows he has f***ed up....Well hes a grown up..about time he stood on his own two feet....sick, tired,and switching off for my own preservation!

sad and tired
10 Jul 2014

Good for you, it's never easy but sometimes we have to take care of our selves.  My son is almost at rock bottom. He is really abusive and angry with me because I have turned off the supply of cash from bank mum.  He cannot now use car, no insurance but of course that is all my fault. Oh and he can't get a job without a car and that is my fault. It won't be long till finance company take it and you can bet your life that will also be my fault. Time they grew up and took some responsibility . Stay strong xx

CANT TAKE NO MORE
10 Jul 2014

It's like they all use the same lines...my son turned up at my mums asking for £20. Had he been drinking-YES! His ex text to call her ASAP, but I can't be bothered with it...made another big decision today and called the counsellor and cancelled his appointments for the near future..he can go whistle if he thinks I'm paying £40 an hour for him to take the piss out of us.... Lost all hope and know he is on a downward spiral..anyway he has court again in a week..hope they lock him up for longer...give us all peace and quiet...rahhhhhh

CANT TAKE NO MORE
11 Jul 2014

He got arrested last night.....Lets hope they remand him......sick to the pit of my stomach but strong in the knowledge that this is his fight ..and until he really hits rock bottom Im out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

sad and tired
11 Jul 2014

It makes you so tired, there is no respite.  Although I worry about my boy at least now he is not here I don't have to see it constantly.  I have no doubt if he doesn't call court to explain why he hasn't paid fine he will eventually end up in prison.  Where on earth did all this come from, he seems so hard and uncaring about everything, especially me. xx

CANT TAKE NO MORE
12 Jul 2014

He tried ringing me twice yesterday, and I ignored him........he can get on with it.....

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