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My Boyfriend Is Addicted To Mkat :(
Posted by staceyleigh on 19 May 2014.
hello im looking for some advice from someone that has maybe been through the same thing im going through now, when i met my partner he had been on mkat for nearly 3 years and he was taking it everyday and didnt see a future without the drug in his life, anyway has our relationship continued he tried not to take it infront of me because he knew i was against it, i got caught on with twins really early on in our relationship and when he found out he tried his bloody hardest to stop taking the drug and i was very proud of him and tbh i still am has it couldnt have been easy for him because his friends continued to take the drug around him, sadly i lost the babies and he didnt really show any emotion infront of me because he was keeping things together for me, has time passed my partner had started taking the drug again and now hes stopped taking it hes having mood swings he snaps and shouts at me for the smallest things and he just isnt his self hes loosing weight he looks really skinny he dosent seem to want to cuddle or kiss me has much and hes pushing me away, its breaking my heart i really dont know what to do it scares me that hes turned out this way im scared of loosing him through the drug. when i first met him i had just got my ex partner sent to jail for 5 years because he brayed me and broke into my nans house and attacked her going through that really messed me up and my partner now understands that has i open up to him about it, he dont know the guy that did this to me but he hates him for what hes done, my partner would never touch a girl in the way that my ex did me, but just lately we have had a few incidents where hes pushed me not knowing his own strength and knocked me over the sofa this is whats scaring me because i love him so much and before getting back on the drugs he would have never laid a finger on me and would kill anyone who did, im just scared because where does it go from here? i want to be here for him because i love him so much and he asks me not to give up on him but its making me so stressed its untrue, me and him splitting isnt an option for me but this is proving to be very difficult on me so i dread to think whats hes going through :( its absolutley heartbreaking seeing him how he is and knowing i cant help him i feel useless and out of control. can someone please help me?
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