We care, for the better.
A place for families, because you don't have to use drugs to be affected by them.
- How do I know if they're using drugs?
- Why do they use drugs/alcohol?
- Is it my fault?
- How can I cope with their behaviour?
- Understanding the stages of addiction and recovery
- Where do I get the help I need?
- Getting support for your loved one
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Posted by JJ57 on 27 June 2013.
This is the first time I've done this. My son is 30, lives at home with me and my husband and his 7yr olds son.He works full time. I know he has been on canibis since being a teenager and this has caused so many rows and upset. I have been in antidepressants for 9 yrs due to all the trouble we've had with him. He never gives us any money towards his keep and we pay for most things for our Grandchild. I know he takes drugs, as I have seen messages on his phone, arranging to meet people and I can see he owes money. He is in debt, and had taken out numerous loans. My husband knows he has taken drugs in the past, but doesn't realise what is going on now. I don't know what to do, if I confront him, he will deny it and he will know I have been reading his texts. I feel i have to tiptoe around him, it's a nightmare at times. If my husband found out, he wouldn't cope and I try to keep the piece between the two of them. There's also my grandson to take into account. I wonder when/if it will all end and how. I have given the phone numbers I have seen to local police, and places where drugs are exchanged. It's good to read about out he families on here, and to know its not just me.
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