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pregnant and alone
Posted by laura89 on 2 June 2015.
im new to all this and need someone to talk to. Im 25 years old and pregnant with my first baby. My mother has drank since I can remember and is what ive found is called a "maintenance drinker". Im not even sure what kind of help im after as im just so angry at her. I spend my day crying which I know isnt good for my baby and all I want is my mam back. I feel so scared and alone all of the time. She denys her drinking and says that its in my head that I can smell it on her. She has had help in the past but always goes back to it. Sorry if im not making sense. I feel like im at a dead end and im exhausted. I can physically speak to anyone as all I do is choke up and cry
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Icarus Trust
22 Jun 2015
I am so sorry to read of how you are feeling. It is very tough for you especially when you should be enjoying looking forward to your new baby. I am sure that you would find it useful to talk with someone who understands what you are dealing with. The Icarus Trusty is a charity that supports the friends and families of addicts. We have experienced trained volunteers who are called 'Family Friends'. If you contact us we will put you in touch with one of them. Talking with one of them may help you to deal with your thoughts and emotions and find a way forward. You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website www.icarustrust.org Good luck with everything!
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7 Jun 2015