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Posted by Stacey82 on 14 October 2014.

2 years ago our baby sadly passed away. Since then my partner has come a completely different person to the one I fell in love with. We argue non stop and now I find out he owes thousands of pounds to drug dealers who now keep knocking on the door wanting their money. He has been so verbally abusive and so nasty and blaming me for everything. I feel drained. During an argument I finished it with him because I can't take no more but at the same time I want to be with him and help. He said his going through the "withdrawal" process and its normal but I just can't take being spoke to the way he does. I don't know what to do for the best.


14 Oct 2014

Hi Stacey,

That is a very difficult and tough situation.  It's a good step that you're able to talk about, and there are people who can try and help you.  The Icarus Trust is a charity which provides a support and signposting service for families who struggle with addiction, as it clearly affects more than just the addict.  Please get in touch with them, and you will be provided with a Family Friend who can support you.  You can drop them an email on or go to their website

I hope this provides the help and support you need.

20 Oct 2014

Is there anyone you could go to stay with for a while my love? You are suffering too. xxx

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