Hi, my husband has been an alcoholic over the last 9 years, he is seeking help, but it is finally taking its toll on myself and two teenage children. I am afraid that the lies about the empty bottles of vodka, and constant inability to realise what he is doing to himself and us, has just about pushed me to the edge, I unfortunately have suffered from some mental health issues, and still working on keeping my head above water. He doesn’t appear to care that he is splitting the family up, I just can’t get through to him! - whether I shout or just chat with him about it, tonight has been the final straw, after lying about a bottle he had denied buying, he now has one more chance or will have to move out. Am I being too harsh? - I am trying to protect myself and the children.