My 17 year old has been using drugs and has been convicted of stealing from shops to fund it. He has also stole from us too. We moved over 200 miles for a fresh start only for it to be twice as bad. Yesterday he smashed the house up as I wouldn't give him any money. I phoned the police and he was arrested for criminal damage. He has been bailed with conditions he stays away from the home, with the recomendation I take out a restraining order against him.
I have no idea where he is or who he is with. I sent him a text asking if they housed him, to which he was abusive and said I wasn't his mum anymore and I am dead to him.
I am struggling massively with all this. The abuse I am used to, it's not knowing if he has a roof over his head or if he is eating etc, all the mum things. I can't sleep, eat or function properly and haven't stopped crying for 2 days.
Has anyone else been in a similar situation please?
Thank you x