should I be the one to back down? by Helen300My husband was absolutely vile to me on Sunday and smashed a glass across our kitchen and I spent Monday morning picking up fragments everywhere. He said the most awful things and for the last four days now he’s not spoken to me. I have a counsellor now from Icarus and they are really really helpful. But I don’t know what to do. Should I try and reconcile this ? Or should I wait til he comes to me to speak? I’m so heartbroken and I have a lot of work pressure too, I feel like there’s no let up of the stress. Any opinions gratefully received. Should I back down ?