My Teenage Drug User by Michelle44Hi my daughter is 17 and has been taking Xanax on and off since last May. This has caused our family huge stress. She shop lifts and puts herself in great danger . What is your son taking? In my experience, yes they say some horrendous hurtful things but really they are vulnerable and don’t know what to do! We are at our wits end with it all as you are. This is an ongoing problem for us . I feel for you I really do .