I feel for all of us. I tried to,answer on the other thread but i’m having tach problems. Normally I would ask my ex to sort out as he lives up the road but then he would see what I am writing! Haha! That does amuse me!
Well I am half divorced. He wants to divorce me (so he says) as I nag him and am too controlling. Apparently wondering where your husband is after a 24 hour bender is overreacting. I got my decree Nisi on unreasonable behaviour quicker than any other case my solicitor had dealt with, but then again he did treat me badly. Not a day goes by when I do not miss my best friend and soulmate.
I think he has no desire to change. He doesn’t seem to miss me and the kids. He is actually a better dad just seeing them every fortnight. Both my boys say it is a lot calmer now. My ex has no desire to change but seems to spy on my every move, even knew what time I went to bed on Saturday night! I think he was driving back to his flat after scoring something or other…