I am sorry to hear that you haven’t had contact yet DNAnon.
I’m hoping Danman is doing well still too.
Do you think when you text your son that he puts up a barrier because he feels you are accusing him of taking cocaine (which he has been doing of course)? Mums are so protective and want to make everything right.
It’s good to hear that he is now seeing his kids and hopefully soon he will be able to resume a normal relationship with you too. It’s awful to say but we cannot control what happens when or if he lets his kids down. My heart goes out to you. But you yourself are not letting them down. I hope you get what you desire, a happy son with a normal, happy life.
Keep well.