I am also trying to support a husband who is battling a cocaine addiction. That stuff is evil and it has torn our world apart…. Is your husband seeking help? Attending CA or NA meetings? Having any kind of therapy? You must also keep reminding yourself that you can not control whether he gets well or not. It’s a very hard thing to come to terms with. I am also struggling with accepting this fact. But ultimately we can offer the help and support but they have to want to get well. Please don’t forget that you also deserve happiness! I think as the ones trying to support a loved one in addiction we spend all our energy and love on trying to make them better and we forget ourselves in the process.
