Day 16 today for me being clean. I’m glad you are trying your best to work it out. It will be hard and tough but for me the hardest bit was first couple of days physically. The mental effects kicking in now and reality. Bits of anxiety creeping in and also night sweats and the worst dreams you can imagine. My wife just says it’s my fault and shes not arsed and take takes the mick to be fair she can be nasty. I told her yesterday that I respect her and I will respect her boundaries it’s not a control thing which is what police keep telling her. I see both sides now due to reading this forum. She just replied sounds like you need a mother. So yeah shes very resentful.
I hope he does his best to get off it. Friday and weekends were my triggers but I was on it every day till I I just stopped. I’m now looking into local authority help CGL who reopen monday and will start the CBT process and if I stick to the plan will send me rehab even though am abstaining I need the mental support
Its hard I was made homeless so am living in a hotel. Scared to message her as she using everything against me. All am saying is if you get a chance you take the opportunity. You have to be ready though as the first week the irritability, mood swings, and withdrawals are quite horrible. After that first week it’s like a cloud over your brain starts to clear up and you start seeing things different.
Regards Daz