I’m in the same boat also, the familiarity is scary. You could literally be writing about me and my now ex partner. Our lovely little family has been torn a part and I’m also left bewildered and low in my mood. It’s awful and really stressful.
I got all the “not in love with you anymore” and “we wasn’t happy bla bla” news to me! But that’s all the coke talking. It changes them into asshxxes!
I agree Louise it is a waiting game but sadly it could take years and I’m not going to hang about. I’m trying to focus on me now, and recover from the hell I’ve been through, along with supporting our girls who by the way he don’t bother with anymore!
It’s so sad.
Plus, these people ain’t Happy! I get what you’re saying tho but anyone who has to take drugs to “live” a life aint Happy so don’t be thinking’s that. If anything they’re probably miserable most of the time, sat with shame, disgust etc which is why they use constantly!