I think to protect yourself you will probably be better to remove yourself to save yourself if that makes sense. I was dragged into very destructive chaos which left me broken, confused and a shadow of myself which wasn’t even mine, yet because of all the blame, lies and nastiness it felt as if it was my issues also.
It all depends what you are prepared to accept. In the end I was cheated on, blamed, lied to and the list goes on so I had to get out.
It really was hell, and mine had no intentions of stopping. Cocaine us the devil drug and completely destroys people. It makes me sick when I think about what I went through and still going thru.
On the other hand you might hear stories whereby people try to support and stick with all the abuse, chaos and lies etc, think carefully about this one. The addict needs to self motivate and want to want the help to recover if not you’ll be banging your head on a brick wall. In others words nothing you or anyone can do or say will stop the addict. That’s how powerful that drug is.
These people become monsters.
Al Anon is another support for people who are affected by someone else’s addiction. Speak to friends and family and please make sure you put some firm boundaries in place should you stick around.
Best of luck