It does so much and it always picks out the good stuff over the bad so after a few weeks you can’t remember why you hate them .. I’ve tried to write down a bad memory for every good one but that’s my issue he never treats me badly to my face so I’ve got to just imagine what he’s been actually doing behind my back!
Yeah exactly as any normal person would just say I am not into you, fact is I’ve told him being ignored hurts my feelings and I would rather know either way and he’s still ignored me and the question, and your right that is abuse actually!
I really wish I could stop choosing this type as it’s not going to end well!
Defo I think you’ve just got to get to a point where your not going to answer any of his messages or calls no matter what the tone is and then he will get the message .. Again I know how hard attachment is though so it’s going to be difficult! x