Thanks for getting back he never used to go on binges that’s why it’s got worse lately normally he would work all week then have it on a Friday then it went to a couple times a week he was able to sit up do it go work next day. Then it went to 3x a week which is then why we started arguing coz that’s taking the piss, he’s never let us go without to get it. Financially he’s normally good but he’s bills are piling up he’s not working now meant to be tomorrow. I’ve paid for the kids the last 11 days, spoke to he’s mum yesterday she came round as it was our youngest sons bday he wanted to come up but I said to he’s mum he should message not just show up. My mum was here too he wouldn’t want to face her he would be too ashamed. He’s been in since last Tuesday hasn’t left the house he’s mum told me he’s not been that moody either he seems to want to see the kids but is avoiding me he’s embarrassed he’s let us down I know that. I told her see how he is after a week he can’t normally tend to go that long. You are wanting to stop it at the right time before its gets worse, i did try and get him to do this also but unfortunately he’s had to learn the hard way.
