Hi debc
I’m happy that you’ve found rehab for you son. Its so difficult to know what to do for the best.
I’ve been trying to get on with my live and try not enable my son.
However, this has not gone down well with him.
I’ve had several calls from him ending up with him yelling at me that I’m not a caring or loving mother cos I’m not helping him when he’s struggling and him having no money for food or anything.
I’m now sitting in floods of tears yet again. I’ve sent his sister to get some groceries to his house as he says he doesn’t want to see me again. I Don’t know what to do for the best, he just makes me feel like I don’t care or love him.
I don’t know if that’s him manipulating me again as he’s good at that too. Am I wrong in trying not to enable him so much – I don’t know any more im exhausted with it all, I feel its affecting my health as its on my mind 24/7.
I’d be grateful for any advice or support.
Lx