Hi Lindyloo,
Sorry only just seen you message.
Sounds absolutely awful, but I do know where your coming from, having had to pay drug debts for my son on previous occasions.
Has he ever been in rehab? Does he talk to anyone apart from the meetings?
My Son actually contacted the Rehab himself and spoke to them for nearly a year before he went.
Being back with his ex girlfriend sounds horrendous, my Son is useless with relationships and has been told not to be involved in them to help his recovery. He has a sponsor and is working through the 12 steps, I really think this helps, I know it’s not a cure.
There are loads of places that can offer help, there is a story on here that has a rehab mentioned in it, it is quite reasonable, it’s on the Adfam website, about other people’s situations.
Thinking of you at this awful time, and always here to chat.
Dx