Hi Tinker,
This is a great forum to get help and read other people’s stories in the same situation.
Like Lindyloo I also have an addict Son who is in Recovery.
Your partner really does need help, but that can only come from him.
There is the Icarus Trust that helps people as well.
Look after you and your children first, keep in touch with the people on this forum, they are really helpful and always helps to share your story.
Take care
Dx