Sorry lindyloo I’ve just read all this thread.
I really feel for you the good thing about his thread is we can share how we feel and vent off.
It must be heart wrenching to watch. I know as mums we want to help them and it feels like we are so helpless.
All the professionals etc I speak to say they have to really want the help and to stop but the problem is the addiction has control and they cant help themselves and as tpu say it torments them as deep down they do want to stop.
I hope you have luck finding something .
My son is so up and down he says hes stopped but i dont know weather to beleive him. he has rang up for money etc this week and hung up on me when I said no which makes me think that irrational response means the money was for something dodgy!
He tells me he gets no help at supported living other I guess than the roof over his head! I feel so grateful he has that house that I darnt ring supported living to question them on their support.
I wish this country did more for addiction as private rehab is so.expensive.
Big hugs to all..we will get through this.