Nothingleft, does your son live alone, or with you?
Yes, the debt they run up is shocking, such a waste of money!
Sadly they don’t see it that way.
We confronted our son over a year ago, and all the truth spilled out , the debt, everything. Rightly or wrong, we paid off about 4 scumbag dealers at the time. A lot of money.
He went to doctor firstly then checked out local CA meetings which he attended regularly, met some inspirational people, and people struggling like him. He felt accepted.
We’re not going to be paying his debts any more, he still has relapses unfortunately, but i just buy food and cigs, no cash !
Hopefully while they’re working they are busy, fingers crossed a quiet week.!
Keep your chin up and find time for yourself- I do 5 min meditation on Google. It helps too.
Always here to chat, there’s some lovely friendly people on this forum. Very supportive
Sending hugs
Lx