Hey Bex.
I have recently left my partner due to sly cocaine taking and sitting up alone all night getting wasted.
He can’t go three days without drink or drugs and has turned on me since I left.
Loved him so much even when I walked out but since then he has forgotten everything I did for him over the last few months and treats me like the enemy.
It is very hard to see the addiction as separate to your loved one but if you want to keep loving them I think that’s the way. He has been so cruel that I can no longer bring myself to love the person I once did. I just can’t see him in there anymore.
I’d say watch out for dishonesty. Make sure you know the signs of intoxication with the substances you suspect he takes and take good care of yourself.
Addicts are good liars and their brains convince them that they need to do anything to get the substance they are addicted to.
Good luck. I hope things don’t progress x