I Coco1212, my bf says he’d rather be slapped with the truth than kissed with a lie. God it’s infuriating hearing that he lied to you about taking the car, weather he planned to use it for so long or not. I wonder if he only brought it back because he was running out of petrol, didn’t have money to buy more, but knew he needed to get it home. At least he had the respect to actually bring it home so you could get to work. What happened to his own car?
I bet most convicted criminals would claim they’re good people, I don’t think anyone is completely good, I know I’m not a saint, but I have enough balance and self control to make what I consider to be wise and non-transgressive decisions. My bf has been a very bad guy, he’s made too many poor lifestyle choices which have impacted his life and the lives of others. Does he deserve goodness and kindness from others, some may say not, but I believe that everyone does. But the day that my bf makes me regret the care and love I give him, will be the day I want him out of my life. He’s done one very scummy thing that I nearly didn’t forgive him for. I gave him a second chance, I won’t give him a third.
If you’ve got burning questions, maybe consider asking? I personally would. In the early days, like I said, well probably always actually, when my bf is high I’ve asked him all sorts and he’s usually so buzzed that he answers anything. I wouldn’t be prepared for a proper conversation, but if you’re not aggressive, or threatening, if you keep any questions simple, and you’re tactful about how you word it, you know, no spite, I bet he’d listen. Maybe just ask him how he feels the treatment is going one month in or something? That’s a valid question. Best of luck if you do.
This may sound strange, but how are his teeth?
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