Hi both of you,
I am sorry you are going through such a bad time with your partner’s drinking.
it’s so good that you have found this forum but, if either of you want some more support, you could contact us at Icarus Trust. we are a charity that supports families around people with addictions. we know how hard this is so we have a range of support available. if you get contact I will put you in touch with one of our Family friends, who are trained and experienced. They would listen and let you know what other support is available.
You can contact Icarus Trust on help@icarustrust.org or visit our website http://www.icarustrust.org
Good luck to both of you.