Hi HolKat,
Rehab is a wonderful thing, but rehab is the easy bit. It’s when they come out that the real hard work must begin. I know that my partner really needed some aftercare, but he came out just as the first lockdown began, so he couldn’t go to the 2/3 meetings a week that he was attending prior to rehab. He did so well for the first 8 months or so, but then one day he decided to drink. And guess who got the blame for it…Me of course. But I know that I’m not to blame, in the past I probably would have second guessed myself, but I’m more wise to it now. Addicts are very manipulative.