Hi thelostone,
sorry to hear he has upset you,
of course its ok to offload today, this is the place for it.
sounds like you are staying strong,
as I’m sure I would be buckling under if my girlfriend was saying things like that,
in fact that’s pretty much the kind of thing I am so desperate to hear,
but I guess I am still at the stage of wanting things to go back to before but without drugs, whereas you are at the stage where you realistically accept that by going back you are only going back to more hurt.
but yes the “mystified what went wrong” bit is a bit odd, as it does seem like he is still in complete denial as to what he did wrong. so it kind of invalidates the rest of his words.
I hope you do post your response one day as I would be very interested in it.
I’m sure it would mirror a lot of feelings from people on here.
hope you are doing ok otherwise and it doesn’t consume you as much as it would me.