so you didn’t message him to say check your postbox etc.
maybe he hasn’t gone to bed yet.
drug users sure do seem to sleep a lot,
I don’t completely delude myself anymore, hence why now whatever happens I don’t ever intend to live with her as I will never feel secure, I need to provide my own security as I wont ever get that from her.
It just makes me sad to imagine a life without her in it at all, but with people like this its hard to only be part way involved , its all or nothing really, as its too much of a roller coaster to not get emotionally dragged in,
this is why I think her brother just ignored her completely for about ten years,
I think he cares as much about her as I do, but he couldn’t care that much about her and carry on helplessly watching her make her life miserably.
out of sight out of mind, although I bet he still tortured himself for years over it all as I think his brain might be similar to my own.
so has your ex said any more or just left it alone now.