Hi Boring123 (I’m sure your not boring),
Welcome to the Forum. I’m sure you feel better for just being be able to share your story. It’s a great place to come and get advice from people in similar situations.
I certainly don’t think that you are looking too much into the situation. Your Husband seems to be drinking an awful lot and drinking a bottle of wine before he comes in means he’s also trying to hide his drinking as well. When he’s not drinking, could you try and talk to him?
I would be quite concerned especially as you are meant to be trying for a baby, do you think he feels under pressure about this?
Don’t think that you are alone, keep in touch on here.
Take care.
Dx