Hiya, hope your OK. I’m the same as your and I’m 4 week clean today. I decided to join C A anonymous 4 week ago and got a sponsor and now I’m working my steps. I’ve never felt so happy, I know it’s a long way to go, but I’m on the right track.
My addiction has been going on 10 year, but it’s been once every few week or once a week. It did get a bit bad recently. Like I didn’t need use alcohol to get coke and other things. He seems like he has a really bad habit. Would he not join CA?
But he needs to admit he has a problem 1st, and put the effort in.
But going back to your question. I don’t think you have done anything wrong. If anything you have cut him off while it’s still early. Women will tell you on here they have been with there partners for years and still it’s same shit dif day.
You have your own health to worry about. His family need to support him and guide him. None of it is your fault. Its easy for an addict to blame someone. But at the end of the day we got our self’s in this mess, time to get ourselfs out of it.
If he wants to stop, he needs delete everyone out his phone even family who have coke, and that’s just the start. Does he want to stop?