Liberty, it doesn’t sound crazy at all.
Being with or standing by an addict is hard work. You set yourself up for disappointment and heartache in some ways. Your always there for them but who’s there for you, for us ?
We are the ones that become isolated in some ways. We can’t or won’t tell people what’s really going on for fear of being judged or them being judged.
I do feel like something has changed with you, or am I wrong ?
You sound deflated. I can’t blame for that you’ve been so strong, so supportive of him and haven’t really had anything back.
How long have you been together ? if you don’t mind me asking.
I was with mine for 18 years.
We are still friends and we have a weird set up he lives with me still but hopefully that will change soon. I think he needs to stand on his own two feet for a while as I’ve said at the moment he’s doing well but the biggest test will be Tuesday when he has money.
Always here if need to chat x