I’m so sorry that you are going through this, I can only imagine the pain you must be feeling for all the lies and deceit. It may be hard to see it now but this may be this best thing for you and your children to move on and heal and be happy as you all deserve, he sounds as though he is a wounded man with some deep rooted issues that only he himself can help, it’s amazing that you stuck by him and tried to help him,you deserve somebody who will be truthful to you ,I know from personal experience the pain of somebody lying and hiding things from you it would make you feel as if you are going mad at times, wishing you and your children all the best xx
