Hiya Sarah. I’ve got a coke habit, 40 days clean today, I hate the stuff BTW and I’m doing everything to stop. I’m on meetings now, as this was my last straw.
Anyways, I think you need to confront him and tell him it’s positive. Or he is just gonna think he’s got away with it and use and use. He will lie and minipulate you with excuses of were he is going and why. I know its heart breaking for partners like yourself.
What do you want to do? Do you want to stay with him? If he is not willing to stop or put the effort in then move on yourself and think of just you. Feel free to ask me anything.