Thanks for your replies Ash and Dot, his secret drinking is what bothered me. I chucked every bit of booze we had out and he hasn’t had a drink for 6 weeks.
I wonder if he just ‘needs’ a secret. I’m going to bring it up at our next session this Friday.
He def hasn’t had any drugs as I’ve got all our money, so he has never has more than £20 on him at a time. Also still drug testing ad hoc.
Yeah he certainly needs these meetings and hasn’t missed a week yet. He is def committed to not falling off the wagon.
I’m just torn about the booze. It’s def a lack of control as when he drinks he just gets completely plastered.