Thank you for your advice. You have sure given me hope and guidance.
I really hope things work out for you and you manage to persuade him one way or another. I am single parent and I was really stuck from the past three years.
What really worked for us putting his biggest fear in front of him.
He is scared of being homeless due to his OCD he constantly washes his hands raw to bleeding point, showers multiple times a day. He can’t imagine life without soap and water married together.
It is cruel to emotionally use someone’s fear against them, all was done in good faith. I have used I am going to kick you out multiple times now and its worked every time.
Rehab or get out
Moving him back into the house from garage where he was isolated.
Making him stay in the rehab until he completed his steps.
If he smokes Weed again he is out.
Kicks off again he is out.
Far too many times now so yes now I have to stop and give him time and space. He is doing okay.
I am his mum I love him and always will. One day he may realise.
All the best to you and please update how you get on. It is always good to share.