Stay focused and never let your guard down. 9 months is amazing but when you least expect it a thought may come, when you ignore it and move on and let the months turn into years you will say thank god I did that. Sounds like you have a challenge with the ex that all being well with patience and perseverance could work out so you can both live amicably for at least the sake of the children. Remind yourselves of that. Good luck
