I had the locks changed, so sent him straight to hes mums house. He has no phone so no contact. He’s mum text and said that he has asked how he’s son is, I replied he is fine.
The thing that really aggravates me is that for 7 whole days he did not give me or our son a single thought, because he was to involved with the lo lives getting high and thinking of himself. All while I was in tears nearly everynight, couldn’t sleep couldn’t eat couldn’t even go to work because of the stress thinking he was dead in the woods somewhere.
At the end of the day your husband spending the night in a hotel is just an excuse to get high. They make it sound so believable because they know we will fall for it. But I made the step of changing my locks and taking all hea belongings to hes mums because I wasn’t going to stand for him just thinking he could spend nights away and then stroll in like nothing had happend.
So he got quite a shock thismorning when he couldn’t get in.
Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind, I love my partner and have endless feelings for him, but to constantly keep abusing me and my family with hes addiction and selfishness just wasn’t acceptable anymore.
I am all for anyone trying and really making the effort to change, but when someone doesn’t even want to change or make that step then it’s just a pointless endless battle.
Xx