You are so right … they did choose this life style and I believe if you get the urge to relapse again your basically walking through a door with your eyes wide open…
My daughter is now older too and at some point I’m responsible for what happens in her life. I can’t have these random people around they are yuck and unfortunately her father is no better to be choosing those as friends. I think this time regardless what happens I need to make my point very clear to him. At the end of the day my children need direction and structure and I can’t give them my full attention if I’m basically trying to keep a 35 year old on track… far out they should be so ashamed.
Well the last time I saw him was last week wensday when I threw my bank statement at him asking why are you buy fit packs from a chemist if your not using drugs ??? He didn’t know what to say. Long story short after me yelling at him the police were called. They asked him to move on and he escalated into something so big he was arrested.
He has been back in jail since.
I’m now wondering if I should break the news to him while he is in there that I’m so done with all this sh*t.
Hopefully he can somehow process that in jail and not come after me again like last time. X
I was laying in my bed the other night and I actually felt a sign of peace I didn’t need to ask 100 questions I didn’t need to see if he ate dinner I didn’t have to walk on egg shells or cringe at the fact his coming to bed… to know your partner is in jail and too feel so much peace with it. What a sad life they choose to live.