Yes your being a fool lol.
Don’t believe what he says regarding he will be OK..
His addiction controls him he doesn’t control it.
Anyways.. My problem was using it on my own. Don’t get me wrong I had it with people a lot. But I just got it on my own mainly. If he wants to stop. He needs to cut everyone off, even friends and family who use. I came off Facebook. Deleted my account and all others. You can message dealers on there, you see people and there fake happy life’s drinking cocktails… Ect.. And it just makes you want to use.
I cut a lot of people off, I don’t drive the streets where dealers live, I can’t drink anymore. Since deleting Facebook about 6 month ago. I feel happier. That’s another addiction lol.
Plus he will need start doing new activities to keep him busy, it is hard. I’ve read neally 20 books this year. The old me would of laughed my head off when some asked do I read.
The problem is with addiction and this is my opinion. We are just stuck in the same old routine day in day out. And we need to break this. Do things we never do. Have a good daily programme. Tick it off each day, each task you have set your self to do. We are so much use to drinking as a society and going friends and doing the same shit day in day out. We think there is nothing else out there. But there is, its about setting some goals, and just going for it. I’m looking foward to going, theme parks, adventure parks, canoeing and things like this. This is what I have planed when lockdown is over. I can’t say anything yet I’m only 12 weeks clean tommorow. But I can feel a little taster what it’s like. If this makes sense. It’s just getting over that 1st hurdle I guess.