Are you always there waiting when he returns? Is there anywhere else you can stay, do you have anyone supporting you ? Do you think that would maybe be the shock he needs if he realised you could leave? I don’t mean you have to leave permanently now but how would he react if it was suggested. My husbands still struggling but I know this was a wake up call for him when I said if he won’t go then perhaps I should look into living somewhere else myself if this is how he wants his life.
