Thanks Dan, your reply means a lot.
He relapsed about 3 weeks ago on the Fri, he said he was feeling lonely at it was nice evening. Arranged to meet a female, thought he’d have a couple of drinks to help him relax….and boom..back in the cycle. I saw him briefly after that few days, for food and cigs of course.
Last weekend hubby was going to buy him shopping but transferred cash so I’m guessing he bought drink and so on….
Didn’t see him for days again until he turned up with a broken phone.
I visited him yesterday at his flat , Didn’t let me in looked rough, said he was “fine” but didn’t want to talk. I told him to email us or pop down to see us. I just said we were worried and cared about him.
All this just triggers my anxiety again unfortunately.
Greatful for this forum to vent.
Lx