Hi Wagtail Sending love and hugs to you from another mum who has gone through the same as you. I have pledged that the last time we were begged for money to pay off his dealers was the last and that we will have nothing to do with him next time. Our son was a talented sportsman, has had beautiful girlfriends and a loving wife and home all lost because of cocaine. He has a gorgeous son who he does see but how long before this is taken from him too because he can’t beat it. He was clean for a few months last summer but has blown thousands and I mean a six figure sum on it including £45,000 that I stumped up to help him clear his debts. Stupid I know, still paying it off ????. You are definitely not alone and it breaks my heart that our boys have come to this. He was a week clean on Wednesday but I haven’t spoken to him today so I’m hoping that this is still the case. My husband is gradually losing the will to live and is badly affected that the boy who was the apple of his eye is a cokehead. Coming on this chat page helps so much. Take care xxxx
