Hi Becky, I’m feel exactly the same when he’s good he’s brilliant & couldn’t be more supportive but when he’s using he’s unreliable distant and acts like we don’t exist, and I hate him. He’s read my messages on WhatsApp yesterday a day later but hasn’t said anything I told him he’s either in or out our lives and I haven’t got time for games this was before I found evidence in the van. If he does get in touch I’m going to ignore it as hard as it will be he needs to be taught a lesson that I won’t always be there or the kids. I have reached the point where I can’t take any more of the disappearing and lies we’re not even living together and he’s not making the effort to come back home our daughter is 3 weeks and he’s already had a slip I don’t want her being part of this cycle like our two sons have been an let down. I feel so much better that I don’t have to worry about him it’s hard being a single mum to 4 kids I have another from previous but I’m in control now not him. Sorry to hear that you think you’re partner has used again they do play games with their phones don’t they so frustrating. Does he still live with you? Thank you i wish things were different for my baby girl but she has me he’s not the same person he was before and I’m learning to stop clinging on to him as he was and take him as he is now as it’s too upsetting for me. I’m from London too east x
