Hi, I can totally relate to this used to live like this myself , my partner had to get his own place in the end which improved everything apart from his drinking ( which he’s now getting help for) we’re still a couple but it improved my mental state because I wasn’t waiting round for him to change as much and for him think the fact he was losing everything maybe scared him to getting the help he needed but I know that no one can change their mindset till their ready but you’ve also got to to take care of yourself and your well being xxx
