We have been here many times before but I think this is the first time he’s realised we won’t be there the next time. When the house sold and he and his ex split the money 80% of his proceeds went on clearing debts snd paying people off. At 33 he has nothing. At 33 I was married with 2 kids owned a house and we both worked our wotsits off. He can’t even afford to take his son out for the day which upsets me. We went without to give our kids the best life. He has just become so selfish. But as I said I live in hope this might be a turning point. X
