Im currently in a situation that i just found out about with my wife of 25 years we have 2 children 24. and 18
i just found out a few days ago that she is using coke . i accidently drove past her after she just purchased a gram of coke from a dealer . I told her I saw her and at 1st she denied it then
she confessed to me when i got home
she told me she has been using for approximately 2 years now. according to her roughly 3 grams a month . however I dont really believe her . unfortunately she doesnt believe she has a problem im not sure if we are gonna make it . I love my wife with all my heart and i always felt she felt the same but right now i dont know if thats enough . she has been distant and less interested and affectionate towrds me the last 2 years i had a feeling something was going on but didnt think she was using again . when we got married she told me she used coke in her past but stopped because it was getting out of hand . so im gonna try to get her to treatment but i can tell its gonna be a struggle. . at this time i just dont know if we are gonna make it