Errmmm.. I guess you have to evaluate the situation. Things like is the person doing his best trying?
Is he still putting himself in situations we’re he can use.. Like the pub, hanging around with using mates, dealers nums still in phone.
My ex always seen me putting the effort in. But she had it the odd time aswell. But could say no to it.
If the partner wants to walk away, I guess u have to look at finances, I mean I don’t know what yours are.. Kids, house together.. Mortgage.. I guess you have to see are you better off with out them. If your young move on ASAP. Its hard for me to say really, but do what is best for you! Not the addict. They can only help them self’s. You can only do so much.
Don’t get me wrong support is good aswell. If there is no one there I could just use it as an excuse to use.but u get a hell of a lot of support in the meetings and taking people’s numbers.
No I did love her. Apart of me. Wanted to keep punishing her for cheating on me. And the big part was the seedy side of the cocaine.. The escort sites ect.
I’ve seen and heard so many simular stories, guys telling me they was on the same site as me ect.. When u do it the 1st time I guess that becomes an addiction as well I recon.
I wouldnt of dreamed of doing all this if I was not using coke. It just takes hold of you and changes you.
Thanks for your lovely comments.
Sorry for the late reply. Feel free to ask me anything